Pure love and feelings, self honest expression, means of getting financial and material benefits, security, Passion, sex and much more! What does love means to you?
The following could provide an insight...
1-Love is everything. No one can see it but I can feel it.
2- Love means being with someone you care about and if you really love someone you will never stop thinking about them.
3- Love is being happy and comfortable with some one and you can just be yourself, no makeup, no fancy clothes, wake up next to them and think that you 2 are the only 2 people in the world that matter. Your heart races when you see them after an hour or a day apart, and you get butterflies when they kiss you, and at that moment you know you will be together for ever after
4- love..caring, loving, sacrifice, giving
5- Love means caring for others, it means accepting one individual for who they are and not for how they are. There is nothing that can separate love. Nothing compares to the love there is between two persons that love each other. Love is a wonderful feeling that God demonstrates through his son Jesus that he gave to save us!
6- Love is when you walk by someone at school and you feel all hot and your heart skips a beat.w
7- Love means to me always being there for the one you love and always be faithful to that person. Also it means to accept someone for who they are and not what they have, or what they do. Love also means to bring that person's name up in whatever you do so they can know that you love them and will always be there for them. That's what I think.
8- Love is a feeling you have for someone.
9- Love is a great feeling to have! You can't see it but you can feel it. If you like someone go for them-- then you'll feel the true feeling of L-O-V-E.
10- Love is where you know you are in love right now might not be love but when you are with that special person you will know what love is trust me, I'm there.
11- Love is a feeling you don't get everyday. Love is when you know you are facing a person and saying I love you or telling them through e-mail or letters or just telling someone to tell them and you will know when you are in love cause your heart will tell you go for it or tell you its okay you love him. When you need someone to talk to about love go to your closest relative and tell them or go to a close friend that cares about you and just think everyone is going through love everyday, getting married, having children and ect... but I'm just telling you when you are in love you will totally know you are cause your heart skips a beat I swear. Have a good day loving someone.
12- Love is something you can't explain. Love is something that comes from the heart and you can feel it....
13- Love is when they are your world... love is when that person doesn't complicate your life but they compliment it. When no matter what they have on they still look amazing to you. When you are with them time seems to fly but when you are apart it takes forever to see them again. When even though they have made you mad or have hurt you, you can't help but love them. How when you see them your stomach still gets butterflies and you begin to smile no matter what mood you are in. When they touch you, you get cold chills all over. When the hardest thing to do is to say good bye. When every time you blink their face is all you see and every time you day dream they are all you dream about. When someone can look at you and see love in your eyes. When you can be clear across the room from them and know the second they walk into a room. When you can be in the middle of a conversation with someone and just glance at them and all of a sudden time begins to slow down and it becomes just you and him and that's the way you want it to be. When reality becomes better then a dream and life seems to good to be true. That's what love is. It's the feelings you only experience in those special moments that are spent with the one you love.
14- Love means that you have to have a special feeling for your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband and wife. They need to be the one you have for the rest of your life.
15- Mom always taught us when we were kids that Love is an itch you can't scratch!!
now I ask, what do you feel when you are with your lover, loved, comforted, cared for and understood or just another source of money and material things?
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Three Reasons Why Husbands Cheat - A Surprising Discovery
One of the hardest things a wife can go through in life is the realization that her husband has been cheating. We immediately try to find within ourselves the reasons why he cheated. Following the anger and shock, comes the low self esteem and lack of purpose. We want to know why and who is this other woman that turned our life upside down. Discovering who your husband cheated with can be painful but nothing is more shocking than when we discover that the reasons he cheated may have nothing to do with you.
Researchers have shown that cheating is usually a decision that has little to do with the partner cheated on. It is more a conflict within the cheater. Low self esteem, lack of confidence and age can sometimes be behind the decision to have an affair. Men usually don't deliberately go out looking for a way to hurt their partner. However, some feel the need to prove to themselves that they still can achieve the same results that they did when younger. In this case, cheating is also not linked to the person they choose to cheat with. They could actually be the instrument to fulfill a temporary emotional need and more often than not forgotten once that emotion is replaced with fear and guilt. An affair can be the way cheating husbands find to seek emotional reassurance rather than for physical attributes.
Lack of maturity is also a common reason for husbands to cheat. Mature men tend to have more conviction of their choices and the sacrifices that need to be made in order to be successful in a relationship. Commitment is not such a big step when we know our marriage is healthy and fulfilling.
For many couples it is difficult to admit that after the birth of a child or due to stressful jobs their sexual life slows down quite a bit. For husbands, this can be particularly difficult when flirtation and fantasy is also gone. Partners need to discuss ways of keeping the "spice" in the relationship and make time for them. Introducing healthy fantasies can also keep them sexually attracted to each other avoiding curiosity that can lead to infidelity.
With so many studies on cheating husbands, is difficult to know all the different reasons why men cheat. But it is important to consider many possibilities before reaching the wrong conclusions. Often spouses of cheating husbands beat themselves over something they have no control. Understanding your partner can be the beginning of a stronger and happier life with or without him
Researchers have shown that cheating is usually a decision that has little to do with the partner cheated on. It is more a conflict within the cheater. Low self esteem, lack of confidence and age can sometimes be behind the decision to have an affair. Men usually don't deliberately go out looking for a way to hurt their partner. However, some feel the need to prove to themselves that they still can achieve the same results that they did when younger. In this case, cheating is also not linked to the person they choose to cheat with. They could actually be the instrument to fulfill a temporary emotional need and more often than not forgotten once that emotion is replaced with fear and guilt. An affair can be the way cheating husbands find to seek emotional reassurance rather than for physical attributes.
Lack of maturity is also a common reason for husbands to cheat. Mature men tend to have more conviction of their choices and the sacrifices that need to be made in order to be successful in a relationship. Commitment is not such a big step when we know our marriage is healthy and fulfilling.
For many couples it is difficult to admit that after the birth of a child or due to stressful jobs their sexual life slows down quite a bit. For husbands, this can be particularly difficult when flirtation and fantasy is also gone. Partners need to discuss ways of keeping the "spice" in the relationship and make time for them. Introducing healthy fantasies can also keep them sexually attracted to each other avoiding curiosity that can lead to infidelity.
With so many studies on cheating husbands, is difficult to know all the different reasons why men cheat. But it is important to consider many possibilities before reaching the wrong conclusions. Often spouses of cheating husbands beat themselves over something they have no control. Understanding your partner can be the beginning of a stronger and happier life with or without him
Thursday, November 4, 2010
ARE YOU WILLING TO GET YOUR EX BACK?
So many times we see relationships that start on a very good beginning come into a sudden end. So many relationships that would have blossomed beautifully into marriage come crashing surprisingly and we keep asking, why? Where did they get it wrong?
If you take a survey of so many broken down relationships , many got broken because of trivial issues that could have been managed. And if you ask, ARE YOU WILLING TO GET YOUR EX BACK? what you will here is a very big YEAH!
This article contains steps that can be taken to ensure that you get your ex-back for now and for good starting right away.
Now, are you willing to do anything to get your relationship back on track? I guess your answer is yes. Now take a deep breath, think back and start figuring out where you missed it. Where you all had it wrong. Get yourself acquainted with reality on ground and start figuring out a way forward.
WHAT ARE THE REASONS THAT BRINGS DOWN THRIVING RELATIONSHIPS?
The reasons could be very long but lets just pinpoint few of then.
(1)Wrong beginning;
(2)Emphasis on materialism;
(3)Desire for monetary rewards;
(4)Pride;
(5)Lack of self control;
(6)Power; and the list goes on.
Now, irrespective of the state you people are,provided you want the relationship back and you are willing to do anything to win back and keep your love, follow this steps.
Be Yourself.... Simple, yet so powerful...
I know what you're probably thinking, that's easy, but how often do we follow that? Think about it for a second.
Whenever you and your ex start arguing, and disagreeing about certain things, more than likely you're in a different state than when you're on good terms. I've seen this many times and been through it also. When you get into a fight with your ex, they say one thing that may hurt your feelings, and you end up saying something even worse to hurt their feelings and then sooner than you know it things start to escalate. This is a vicious cycle and it happens often within relationships, which causes breakups.
Of course, things were said out of anger that's why it is very important for you to take a step back and be the bigger person and apologize to your ex.. But only if you want to him/her back.
At this juncture, I would say you should be yourself. Be yourself, and put your pride aside. Someone has to be the bigger person, if not you can forget about recovering your relationship, but if you truly love your ex you will be the bigger person to take the bold step.
Learn to love for love....
All this hype out there about playing mind games to get your ex back is useless. Let's say you play this mind game just to get your ex back, what happens after that? You must resolve the core issues before you can rekindle any relationship or else things will end up back where you started from.
Love is all about giving and taking, Love is all about mutual benefit...
If you were in the relationship purely for material benefit in the first place, them change your way or stop reading this article right now. Love can not be bought and sold in the candy store. Love is all about caring and sharing. So be determine to impress your EX with love and concern. If you see any beautiful thing you can afford to buy for Him/Her, do but it shouldn't dig a deep hole in your pockets.
For more tips on how to survive the turbulence of this world, visit http://www.thetipscenter.blogspot.com
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If you take a survey of so many broken down relationships , many got broken because of trivial issues that could have been managed. And if you ask, ARE YOU WILLING TO GET YOUR EX BACK? what you will here is a very big YEAH!
This article contains steps that can be taken to ensure that you get your ex-back for now and for good starting right away.
Now, are you willing to do anything to get your relationship back on track? I guess your answer is yes. Now take a deep breath, think back and start figuring out where you missed it. Where you all had it wrong. Get yourself acquainted with reality on ground and start figuring out a way forward.
WHAT ARE THE REASONS THAT BRINGS DOWN THRIVING RELATIONSHIPS?
The reasons could be very long but lets just pinpoint few of then.
(1)Wrong beginning;
(2)Emphasis on materialism;
(3)Desire for monetary rewards;
(4)Pride;
(5)Lack of self control;
(6)Power; and the list goes on.
Now, irrespective of the state you people are,provided you want the relationship back and you are willing to do anything to win back and keep your love, follow this steps.
Be Yourself.... Simple, yet so powerful...
I know what you're probably thinking, that's easy, but how often do we follow that? Think about it for a second.
Whenever you and your ex start arguing, and disagreeing about certain things, more than likely you're in a different state than when you're on good terms. I've seen this many times and been through it also. When you get into a fight with your ex, they say one thing that may hurt your feelings, and you end up saying something even worse to hurt their feelings and then sooner than you know it things start to escalate. This is a vicious cycle and it happens often within relationships, which causes breakups.
Of course, things were said out of anger that's why it is very important for you to take a step back and be the bigger person and apologize to your ex.. But only if you want to him/her back.
At this juncture, I would say you should be yourself. Be yourself, and put your pride aside. Someone has to be the bigger person, if not you can forget about recovering your relationship, but if you truly love your ex you will be the bigger person to take the bold step.
Learn to love for love....
All this hype out there about playing mind games to get your ex back is useless. Let's say you play this mind game just to get your ex back, what happens after that? You must resolve the core issues before you can rekindle any relationship or else things will end up back where you started from.
Love is all about giving and taking, Love is all about mutual benefit...
If you were in the relationship purely for material benefit in the first place, them change your way or stop reading this article right now. Love can not be bought and sold in the candy store. Love is all about caring and sharing. So be determine to impress your EX with love and concern. If you see any beautiful thing you can afford to buy for Him/Her, do but it shouldn't dig a deep hole in your pockets.
For more tips on how to survive the turbulence of this world, visit http://www.thetipscenter.blogspot.com
If this article helps you, please kindly follow me at the right hand side of this blog using any means...facebook, twitter, yahoo, google, myspace...
also, find out how you make money free at the brown icon by the right.
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Friday, October 29, 2010
3 TIPS THAT CAN HELP YOU BUILD A LASTING RELATIONSHIP
Keeping a strong and lasting relationship has not being an easy task at all. Most couple (married and unmarried)has had to face trials and challenges that treating the relationships sometimes. When such trials and temptations comes, couples most device a means of managing the turbulence and staying back on track. As couples, you should learn to consider some of the important things. This article provides three effective tips to have a good relationship:
1. SOLVE THE PROBLEM NOW! - To have a good relationship, it is best that both of you should fix the problems immediately. If there are problems encountered in the relationship, try to fix them right away. Aside from that, you should not humiliate your partner by arguing with him or her in front of the public. It will just cause so much trouble. It will just lead to unnecessary outbursts of anger. You should patch up things before ending the day or even before going to bed. Discuss the issues that have brought you to the problem and never wait for tomorrow to fix everything.
2. SPEND GOOD TIMES TOGETHER - It is very important that you give and spend quality time with your partner. Time is very essential in every relationship. Try doing something fun and exciting together. Always try your best to complement each other and avoid focusing on each other's mistakes and flaws. Try to appreciate and boost up the positive qualities of your partner and do not focus on the negative ones. You should also learn to give ample time to make your partner feel loved.
3. ACCEPT AND LOVE YOUR PARTNER FOR WHO THEY ARE AND NOT WHAT THEY ARE - It is very important that you accept your partner whatever flaws they may have. Do not attempt to change your partner. You have to face it and accept it. People do not have to change. People may learn from their mistakes and they should not be demanded to change. Do not compare them with others and show them how much you love them for who and what they are.
Sometimes, it is very difficult to have a good relationship, but it is not impossible. You just need to consider these three effective tips and you will absolutely have a long lasting relationship.
Did this article help you in any way, please let me know by subscribing to this blog via email at the space provided at the right hand side of this article. for more tips on how to survive this world and its challenges, please go to http://www.thetipscenter.blogspot.com. Also, follow me on twitter by clicking the blue bottom provided at the right hand side of this article. Join me in making money on twitter by clicking the red and yellow button at the right hand side of this article.
1. SOLVE THE PROBLEM NOW! - To have a good relationship, it is best that both of you should fix the problems immediately. If there are problems encountered in the relationship, try to fix them right away. Aside from that, you should not humiliate your partner by arguing with him or her in front of the public. It will just cause so much trouble. It will just lead to unnecessary outbursts of anger. You should patch up things before ending the day or even before going to bed. Discuss the issues that have brought you to the problem and never wait for tomorrow to fix everything.
2. SPEND GOOD TIMES TOGETHER - It is very important that you give and spend quality time with your partner. Time is very essential in every relationship. Try doing something fun and exciting together. Always try your best to complement each other and avoid focusing on each other's mistakes and flaws. Try to appreciate and boost up the positive qualities of your partner and do not focus on the negative ones. You should also learn to give ample time to make your partner feel loved.
3. ACCEPT AND LOVE YOUR PARTNER FOR WHO THEY ARE AND NOT WHAT THEY ARE - It is very important that you accept your partner whatever flaws they may have. Do not attempt to change your partner. You have to face it and accept it. People do not have to change. People may learn from their mistakes and they should not be demanded to change. Do not compare them with others and show them how much you love them for who and what they are.
Sometimes, it is very difficult to have a good relationship, but it is not impossible. You just need to consider these three effective tips and you will absolutely have a long lasting relationship.
Did this article help you in any way, please let me know by subscribing to this blog via email at the space provided at the right hand side of this article. for more tips on how to survive this world and its challenges, please go to http://www.thetipscenter.blogspot.com. Also, follow me on twitter by clicking the blue bottom provided at the right hand side of this article. Join me in making money on twitter by clicking the red and yellow button at the right hand side of this article.
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